Wednesday, February 27, 2013

Heck yeah my son knits.

Ryan is seven and a boy – like uberboy. The no-fear, fights playground equipment, stupid stunt doing, rowdy, super hyper, dirty, gross smelling boy.

And he likes to knit.

my son knits - life as their mom

To the haters out there – you’re just jealous of his mad skills.

A few weeks back, as I was sitting and working on getting this guy knitted (still working on that…) Ryan came up to me and asked me if I would show him how to knit. I was slightly skeptical at first, I mean the boy has major ADHD issues and he wants to knit? Uh huh… sure. But I figured there was no harm in trying to teach him if he seemed interested. I mean, this is the same boy that I have taught to do digital scrapbooking. And paper scrapbooking. What can I say, my dude likes to get his craft on.

Back to him learning to knit.

I grabbed a slightly large set of needles, let him pick out some yarn, and we sat down and got down to the business of learning to knit. It took a couple “Ryan, stop. Look at what I’m doing. Ryan, focus please or I’m going back to my knitting.” but we eventually got a good groove going. I showed him how to cast on, undid the stitches, put my hands over his and guided him through casting on, undid those, then let him cast on on his own. Then we did the same with learning a regular stitch. By row three he was on a roll. By last week he had mastered the task of watching tv as he sat knitting. Little dude picked it up with a speed and ease that just astounded me… and left me feeling slightly jealous since I still remember my first few months stumbling through learning. Don’t get me wrong, that boy drops at least one or two stitches each time he sits and knits, but I always pick them up for him, and tonight he managed to fix one on his own. He gets frustrated sometimes with it, and he can only do a garter stitch since I haven’t gone over purling with him yet. But he rocks that garter like it ain’t nobody’s business.

Sunday, as he was sitting knitting and watching a movie I asked him how he’s doing it. Normally my boy has trouble just sitting through a 30 minute tv show, and here he was sitting knitting and watching a movie. He wasn’t fidgeting. Or talking non-stop. Or playing with toys as he “watched.” Or terrorizing everyone. He was just sitting there quietly working and watching the movie. I was in awe. He told me the knitting helps him sit and watch the movie. He didn’t expand on it any, so the best I could figure was that the constant moving of his hands, plus the split attention, was helping him keep his ADHD in check.

So I did what any curious mom would do; I hit up Google. Apparently there is quite a bit out there about how knitting helps people and kids with ADHD. This was my favorite thing I read on it:

"Some teachers in mainstream schools and colleges are using knitting to enable them to teach pupils with ADHD and kinesthetic learners … . Knitting appears to occupy the brain sufficiently to lessen or stop hyperactive or disruptive behaviour whilst at the same time enabling the pupil to take in information and to learn.”

from In Education from Stitchlinks.com

How about that? Turns out Ryan was on to something.

If you’re interested in reading up on ADHD and knitting check out any of these links:

Right now Ryan is working bit by bit on a scarf for his teacher. He’s doing it in 4-6 row color blocks (I’m not letting him go over one block in a sitting) using size 13 needles and yarn from my rather large yarn stash. If you want to follow along on his journey you can watch his progress in pictures on my project for it on Ravelry. 

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Tuesday, February 26, 2013

Surprise! A scribbley gift.

scribble surprise freebie - templates by trish
--->DOWNLOAD HERE<---

Really I just made these for myself to have a set of general sentiments readily available to use on my own pages, but for some reason (one totally beyond me) other people like my handwriting.

*boggles my mind*

Anyway. I decided to go ahead and just share these with everyone else as well.

I hope you enjoy!

Sunday, February 24, 2013

Edit like this…

Edit like this… is a set of simple picture only photo editing tutorials. If you need something more clearly explained, or you have a question feel free to comment with it. I used Photoshop CS3 to complete this edit.

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edit like this 3 original - life as their mom
step1 - gradient map 1
step2 - gradient map 2
step3 - gradient fill 1
step4 - exposure
step5 - gradient fill 2
edit like this 3 final - life as their mom

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Crap. We’re now THAT family.

We’re a co-sleeping family. We’ve always been one, we’ve always been vocal about why we like it so much, and how other people shouldn’t generalize or stereotype it.

that family co-sleeping - life as their mom

After the blanket “NO! CO-SLEEPING IS SOOOO DANGEROUS!” statements, the next thing that bothers me most is people saying that they don’t want their spouse having to sleep somewhere else. Or, even worse, the mom who goes and sleeps in the kid’s bed. I know it’s not for everyone, but it bothers me when people brush all co-sleepers with that brush. But maybe John just had me spoiled. We’ve been co-sleeping for almost NINE years with no real problems. Once the kids started sleeping through the night we always moved them to their own beds in their own rooms, but most mornings we would still wake up with a kid or two in our bed.

Then came Mason.
(Why does it seem like that phrase keeps coming out of my mouth so often??)

Mason has this weird obsession with John. OK, not weird, but the boy is definitely obsessed with his daddy. Unless the boys is tired or hungry he wants daddy. John comes home and Mason goes nuts yelling “Da da! Da da! Da da! HEY! Da da! Da da!” usually accompanied with clapping and bouncing. Cute, right?

The not cute part.
Mason will not sleep if he knows John is near. He’d wake to get in bed with us around 12 to finish out the night and nurse, but then he’d realize, “hey! there’s my daddy!” and that was that. There was no more sleeping. For anyone. It’d take another hour or two to get him to settle back down enough to go to sleep, and then it’d start all over at 3 or 4 when he’d wake again. None of us were getting a decent amount of sleep. We couldn’t even just move him out of our room. He still wakes to nurse 2-3 times a night, and if you don’t get him within five minutes of him waking to eat he starts bouncing and screaming until you do. So that sort of nixed putting him in with the kids because then Zach and Ryan wouldn’t be getting the sleep they need to function at school.

To solve the problem John did something that we have never done before. He moved his bed to the couch. As in he sleeps on the couch every night and Mason sleeps in our bed with me. We have now become one of my most hated co-sleeping stereotypes. The sad part is that it’s working so well for all of us that we’re kinda staying with the current arrangement. John’s getting a good night’s sleep, and Mason and I are also getting a good night of sleep.

Thursday, February 21, 2013

In just four weeks.

Can you believe it?

I know, I can’t believe it either.

In just four weeks Mason is turning ONE.

four weeks - life as their mom

How has a whole year managed to just fly right by? It seems the last time I checked he was just six months old, and right before that I was still pregnant with him. I am so far in denial about this that even though I have made general non-specific plans about his birthday party, I haven’t actually done any REAL planning yet because I keep thinking “Eh, I got plenty of time to worry about this later.”

BUT I CAN’T.

I CAN’T BECAUSE HIS BIRTHDAY IS IN FOUR FREAKING WEEKS!

*sobs*

Monday, February 18, 2013

The weekend.

Friday was my mom’s birthday. We went and ate dinner with them last night and had dessert there for her birthday. She ended up getting three cakes and a pie. She’s always making treats and goodies for everyone else, so everyone felt the need to return the favor. She looks pretty good for a grandmother of four, doesn’t she?

the weekend - life as their mom

Ever since like my second day at my new job I’ve been obsessed with seeing Brave. We watched like the first thirty minutes of it in one of the classes, and I’ve been dying  to see the rest. Newer Disney stuff has been rather hit/miss at my house so we never went and saw Brave in theaters. I used some of my check to go get it Friday and the kids and I loved it. It is definitely a new favorite in our house, especially with Bella.


(image from Disney/Pixar)

And I’ll wrap this up with our dinners menu for this week.

our family menu Feb 17 - Life as Their Mom

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Edit like this…

Edit like this… is a set of simple picture only photo editing tutorials. If you need something more clearly explained, or you have a question feel free to comment with it. I used Photoshop CS3 to complete this edit.

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edit like this 2 original - life as their mom
step1 - convert to grayscale
step2 - convert to duotone
step3 - select tricone colors
step4 - adjust exposure
step5 - add gradient fill
step6 - adjust gradient
edit like this 2 final - life as their mom

And while I have you here, go and check out my post breaking down my process on making my scrapbook pages over on the Traci Reed Blog.